My 2 Handsome Princes

Im glad I have 2 lively handsome princes in my life. Though they are extremely  naughty and active but still deep in my heart they are my sweet and adorable princes. 

Prince Jacob is 7 years and Prince Javier is 5 years now and Im very strict with them more on their behavior, character and attitude. I believe having a good behavior, character and right attitude really matters a lot. 

Having good results is important, but if they do not have the right attitude towards school work, it will land them nowhere eventually. They might hates school with the wrong attitude and results would just fall. The right attitude does not only applies in school work but also in life. This comes with character. Positive attitude comes along with positive and strong character which influences to good behavior towards life n people surrounding them.

Having strong character of being independent and having their strong stand in correct decision making but still able to accept suggestions from others for their planning. Of course having that strong character and us to accept him decision or ideas after gathering ideas or suggestions from us for their planning will definitely boost their level of confidence up. 

With all that mention, correct n good behavior brings them to be able to communicate with better with friends or anyone around. A good behavior definitely needs a very positive, strong and optimism self approach. To be able to self-control one's behavior and attitude at any point of time. 

All these may be too young to guide them on, but still everything has to be cultivated since young. Prince Jacob's have a very "violent" and "harsh" character which leads to bad behavior when things are not agreed on his way, be it playing or others. But still not to the unapproachable situations. He might be a little petty over small issues or getting impatient with things. He might be very harsh with words when he faced situations he is upset on, which needs lots of patience and guidance to cultivate him. 

Prince Javier on the other hand, better in his behavior, beta in EQ. He is more understanding towards others feelings, able to behave at the correct time. When he sees people who are sad, he would do funny things, trying to coax them. When he knows something is wrong that his brother would be scolded, he simply stay still and act good. Neverless to say, he had his stubborn silly times too. Keeping quiet at times when he gets scolding. Keeping quiet and rather be alone at a corner to show his "anger". Though all these are wrong, but at least he handle the situations well. He doesnt scream or shout but keeping quiet till he feels comfortable to mix around again. 

One great thing about him is that he could simply be alone at a corner playing his toys or watching tv or playing his IPad. He does not needs too much attention. On the other hand, Prince Jacob is too active, and also needs a lot of attention from us or anyone that he wants to play with. Being active is good, sociable enough, but too active and attention seeking does tire us down. Though both are different in character, but they are very loving to each other. They takes good care of each other and looks after each other.

Speaking of all these, most importantly is being healthy. As long as they are healthy and strong, the rest are just secondary. Thats the reason why I started cooking and loving cooking. Kids always gets tired of food easily or they could be picky (my kids do not have the choice to say "no", they would need to try every kind of food). Thus having to do new things and interesting things to make them eat is my challenge. Im always happy when they love my food. 

Im blessed with a great family who takes care of them so much, spending so much time with them while I worked. Thanks to them who helps me with guiding, teaching and spending time with my 2 princes. Without my family, I would not be able to do a lot of things. KUDOS to my FAMILY!!!